Say What You Mean A Mindful Approach to Nonviolent Communication Paperback – 30 Oct. 2018
Say What You Mean A Mindful Approach to Nonviolent Communication Paperback – 30 Oct. 2018

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Say What You Mean A Mindful Approach to Nonviolent Communication Paperback – 30 Oct. 2018
Say What You Mean A Mindful Approach to Nonviolent Communication Paperback – 30 Oct. 2018
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"Unconscious patterns of communication create separation not only in our personal lives, they also perpetuate patterns of misunderstanding and violence that pervade our world. With clarity and great insight, Oren Jay Sofer offers teachings and practices that train us to speak and listen with presence, courage, and an open heart."
— Tara Brach, author of Radical Acceptance and True Refuge
“Say What You Mean: A Mindful Approach to Nonviolent Communication” by Oren Jay Sofer is an essential guide for anyone seeking to enhance their communication skills and build more meaningful relationships. Drawing from his expertise in mindfulness, Nonviolent Communication, and somatic experiencing, Sofer presents a groundbreaking approach to effective dialogue.
Readers will learn:
- How to speak with clarity, confidence, and compassion
- Techniques for deep listening and understanding others’ perspectives
- Methods to reduce anxiety and stay focused during challenging discussions
- Ways to identify and express underlying needs and emotions
- Strategies for finding common ground and resolving conflicts peacefully
“Say What You Mean” offers a transformative approach to communication, combining ancient wisdom with modern psychology. Sofer’s clear writing style and practical exercises make complex concepts accessible and applicable to everyday life.
By mastering the skills presented in this book, readers will be equipped to foster deeper connections, resolve conflicts more effectively, and experience more satisfying and authentic relationships in all areas of their lives.
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- Professionals looking to improve workplace communication
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Meet the author
Author biography
Oren Jay Sofer is a renowned meditation teacher, communication expert, and author of the bestseller “Say What You Mean: A Mindful Approach to Nonviolent Communication.” With over two decades of experience in Buddhist meditation, Sofer combines classical training with modern disciplines like Nonviolent Communication and Somatic Experiencing. He is a certified trainer in Nonviolent Communication, a member of the Spirit Rock Teacher’s Council, and the founder of Next Step Dharma, an innovative online course focused on integrating meditation into daily life.
Sofer’s work spans various fields, including mindfulness in education, healthcare, and technology. He has developed curricula for leading organizations such as Mindful Schools and created mindfulness programs for companies like Apple, Kaiser Permanente, and Calm. Sofer’s teaching style is known for its clarity, warmth, and emphasis on embodiment. He holds a degree in Comparative Religion from Columbia University and has lived as a renunciate in Thai Forest monasteries. When not teaching or writing, Sofer enjoys spending time with his family and practicing Qi Gong.
Book testimonials
“Oren Jay Sofer offers us a brilliant intertwining of focused presence and artful engagement. Our work, family, and any other relationships will benefit from his guidance.”
— Daniel Goleman, author of Emotional Intelligence and Altered Traits
“Full of practical exercises that develop powerful communication and mindfulness skills, this timely and engaging book shows us how caring, curiosity, and connection can transform people’s lives, even in the face of aggression.”
— Susan Kaiser Greenland, author of Mindful Games and The Mindful Child
“By the time we reach adulthood, most of us have learned to operate through such deeply engrained patterns of language and behavior that virtually all of our communication involves projection, assumption, and bias. No wonder we often feel so cut off and all alone! Mr. Sofer deftly weaves together his mindfulness practice and principles of Nonviolent Communication to help us learn how to find one another again. This is a powerful guidebook to thinking, speaking, and listening with authenticity and care. Bravo!”
— Sharon Salzberg, author of Real Happiness and Real Love
“This tremendous book addresses one of the biggest challenges in any relationship: how to combine heart with strength, compassion with assertiveness. Written with great warmth and clarity, it brings together well-researched principles, effective tools and suggestions, powerful experiential practices, and many examples. It is down-to-earth and completely accessible while also being so deep, even profound. If I had just one book to recommend about interpersonal communication, it would be this one.”
— Rick Hanson, Ph.D., author of Resilient: How to Grow an Unshakable Core of Calm, Strength, and Happiness
“Oren Jay Sofer’s first book, Say What You Mean, is a helpful guide for speaking wisely and with love. It offers terrific tools and understandings that are critical to the art of communicating clearly and from the heart.”
— Jack Kornfield, author of No Time Like the Present and Bringing Home the Dharma